ADR 0169: the firewall seat serves its verbs, and a foreign rule set is removed through one of them

Designs 33 and 08 revised. The first node-scoped seat with verbs: rules,
reload, remove; the nftables module holds it from a runtime with NET_ADMIN,
the first container to declare a capability.

03-DESIGN/01-to-be/08-connectivity.md

@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ code:
   - mesh-host internal/apply (the service that reflects a rule set)
 updated: 2026-10-02
 decisions:
+  - 02-DECISIONS/0169-the-firewall-seat-serves-its-verbs.md
   - 02-DECISIONS/0169-a-machine-joins-through-the-tunnel-and-the-bus-is-never-public.md
   - 02-DECISIONS/0168-a-converged-machine-is-filtered-by-the-mesh-alone.md
   - 02-DECISIONS/0167-a-membership-carries-what-its-module-receives-and-who-the-mesh-is.md
@@ -766,6 +767,11 @@ tests over a fixture report check the recording, the preview's fates, the status
 predicate. Live: the home server's record names the predecessor's chain as *other* and `status`
 names the machine until the chain is removed by hand.
 
+*2026-10-02, [ADR 0169](../../02-DECISIONS/0169-the-firewall-seat-serves-its-verbs.md):* removing what
+the host reports as *other* is reached through the packet filter seat's `remove` verb, an operator's act
+by name on the bus; the seat also serves `rules` and `reload`, and its holder's runtime declares the
+`NET_ADMIN` capability on the machine's network. See design 33.
+
 ## 5 — Certificates
 
 **Two authorities, kept separate on purpose.**