ADR 0269 accepted: note the narrowing on ADR 0118, and give it a home in the node-engine's design

The operator accepted ADR 0269 on 2026-10-09. ADR 0118 gets the dated note the README asks for where a
later record narrows its mechanism. The node-engine's to-be design names the decision and says what it
changes, which the cycle check requires of an accepted record.

02-DECISIONS/0118-undeclaring-gives-a-unit-back-the-state-it-was-found-in.md

@@ -80,6 +80,12 @@ records the state it first found the unit in, and undeclaring returns the unit t
   manager: running before the mesh arrived, running after it leaves.
 - **A unit the mesh started is stopped again**, and one it enabled is disabled again — the packet
   filter a converge loaded, which returning to adopted unloads.
+> **Narrowed, not replaced — 2026-10-09, by [ADR 0269](0269-what-the-meshs-own-declaration-stopped-is-started-again-when-it-goes.md).**
+> "Never started on the way out" has one exception. The host now records what the mesh declared beside
+> what it found. A unit found running or enabled that the mesh's own declaration held stopped or disabled
+> is started or enabled again when that declaration goes, but only while it is still exactly as the mesh
+> held it: a masked unit, or one changed since, is left as it is. The rest of this record stands.
+
 - **Never started on the way out.** A unit the mesh stopped is not started again when its
   declaration goes; starting something is a decision, and the operator makes it.
 - **Unknown is left alone.** A record written before the host kept what it found says nothing

02-DECISIONS/0269-what-the-meshs-own-declaration-stopped-is-started-again-when-it-goes.md

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 ---
 topic: what runs on it
-status: proposed
+status: accepted
 date: 2026-10-09
 deciders: jochen
 reconstructed: false