Serve the read verbs on the serving controller's own connection, and name every connection

Each verb ran as a process that dialled the bus, so hundreds of short
connections an hour, all named mesh-controller, hid any client reconnecting
in a loop (hq issue 327). D15 now says a user whose connections keep dropping.

cmd/mesh-builder/main.go

@@ -27,6 +27,8 @@ import (
 	"syscall"
 	"time"
 
+	"github.com/nats-io/nats.go"
+
 	"github.com/novox/mesh-controller/internal/broker"
 	"github.com/novox/mesh-controller/internal/builder"
 	"github.com/novox/mesh-controller/internal/link"
@@ -175,7 +177,9 @@ func dialFor(credential Credential) (*broker.JetStream, string, error) {
 	if !credential.onTheNewBus() {
 		return nil, "", fmt.Errorf("the credential at hand names %q, which is not the mesh's bus", credential.URL)
 	}
-	js, err := broker.DialPinned(credential.natsURL(), credential.Fingerprint)
+	// Named for what it is, not the controller whose code dials it (novox/hq issue 327).
+	host, _ := os.Hostname()
+	js, err := broker.DialPinned(credential.natsURL(), credential.Fingerprint, nats.Name("build agent on "+host))
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, "", err
 	}