Serve the read verbs on the serving controller's own connection, and name every connection

Each verb ran as a process that dialled the bus, so hundreds of short
connections an hour, all named mesh-controller, hid any client reconnecting
in a loop (hq issue 327). D15 now says a user whose connections keep dropping.

cmd/mesh-controller/acting.go

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ import (
 	"sync"
 	"time"
 
+	"github.com/nats-io/nats.go"
 	"github.com/nats-io/nats.go/jetstream"
 
 	"github.com/novox/mesh-controller/internal/broker"
@@ -187,7 +188,8 @@ func (a *actor) serveUnderTheLease(ctx context.Context, inv *inventory.Inventory
 	a.mu.Lock()
 	a.serving = true
 	a.mu.Unlock()
-	js, err := broker.Dial(address)
+	// Its own connection, held as long as the lease, and named so (novox/hq issue 327).
+	js, err := broker.Dial(address, nats.Name(broker.ConnectionName+" lease"))
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, fmt.Errorf("the mesh is on the bus at %s and this control plane cannot reach it to take the "+
 			"lease: %w", broker.BareAddress(address), err)