Let a requirement be optional, binding only a provider that already runs (hq issue 166, ADR 0330)

Making every soft dependency a provision made it hard: a mesh without influxdb could not assign
grafana, and one with influxdb in its catalogue would install it for grafana. A requirement may now
be written {"name": ..., "optional": true}. It resolves as a hard one when a provider is assigned or
reachable, and is otherwise absent: never refused, nothing installed for it. Its binding, credential
and only-when-bound files are left out, its ${bound:...|default:...} placeholders take their
defaults, the module check refuses one that could render empty, and plan and node list it unbound.

cmd/mesh-controller/nodes.go

@@ -929,6 +929,13 @@ func showNode(ctx context.Context, stored *stores, name string) error {
 		for _, line := range notAppliedLines(name, leftOutOf(plan, settings, node.Adopted)) {
 			fmt.Println(line)
 		}
+		// And which optional requirements of its modules nothing assigned answers (novox/hq ADR 0330 §7).
+		if lines := unboundLines(plan); len(lines) > 0 {
+			fmt.Println()
+			for _, line := range lines {
+				fmt.Println(line)
+			}
+		}
 	}
 	return nil
 }