Give every test a bus of its own, at the release the mesh runs (hq ADR 0237)

The live tests reached one shared bus and assert, read and remove the mesh's own objects by
their fixed names, so packages run in parallel deleted what each other read and the suite
passed only one package at a time; a red suite read as noise. internal/testbus starts a server
per test, linked in at the nats-server release go.mod pins, and a test holds that pin to the
catalogue's bus image and to the facts snapshot's bus when there is one, so the tests never run
a bus the mesh does not. The waiter test read a timing (the most connections held at one look)
and now reads the state it means (the fewest held across the wait). make check runs the packages
in parallel under the race detector, with a timeout.

go.mod

@@ -11,15 +11,22 @@ require (
 )
 
 require (
+	github.com/antithesishq/antithesis-sdk-go v0.7.0-default-no-op // indirect
+	github.com/google/go-tpm v0.9.8 // indirect
 	github.com/jackc/pgpassfile v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/jackc/pgservicefile v0.0.0-20240606120523-5a60cdf6a761 // indirect
 	github.com/jackc/puddle/v2 v2.2.2 // indirect
 	github.com/klauspost/compress v1.20.0 // indirect
+	github.com/minio/highwayhash v1.0.4 // indirect
+	github.com/nats-io/jwt/v2 v2.8.1 // indirect
+	github.com/nats-io/nats-server/v2 v2.11.17 // indirect
 	github.com/nats-io/nkeys v0.4.16 // indirect
 	github.com/nats-io/nuid v1.0.1 // indirect
+	go.uber.org/automaxprocs v1.6.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sync v0.23.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.48.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/text v0.42.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/time v0.15.0 // indirect
 )
 
 // The node-engine's own validator (mesh-host/validate, novox/hq to-be 45 D1): one validator, the host's.