Do not ask the operator to stop a delivery that is already stopped; say what ends it (issue 1581)

cmd/mesh-controller/plain_words.go

@@ -951,6 +951,10 @@ func stalledWords(l stalledLine, o conditions.Observation) (headline, explanatio
 			needs, actions = "release it, or stop it, "+FromMeshMCPServer, []conditions.Action{release, stop}
 		case "ready", "checked":
 			needs = "merge its pull request, or close it."
+		case "stopped":
+			// Already stopped: mesh-delivery.stop refuses it, so neither offer nor ask it (novox/hq issue 1581).
+			// What ends it is the stalled line's own word, such as a later merge that delivers its modules.
+			needs = stoppedNeeds(l)
 		default:
 			needs, actions = "stop it "+FromMeshMCPServer, []conditions.Action{stop}
 		}
@@ -960,6 +964,17 @@ func stalledWords(l stalledLine, o conditions.Observation) (headline, explanatio
 		fmt.Sprintf("Delivery of %s is no longer %s", name, held), needs, actions
 }
 
+// stoppedNeeds is what ends a delivery that is already stopped, from the stalled line's healer words ("none: a
+// merge that delivers its modules ends it — the operator's"): the part that says what ends it.
+func stoppedNeeds(l stalledLine) string {
+	ends := strings.TrimSpace(strings.TrimPrefix(l.H2, "none:"))
+	ends, _, _ = strings.Cut(ends, " — ")
+	if ends == "" {
+		ends = "a later merge that delivers its modules ends it"
+	}
+	return "nothing to stop, it is stopped already: " + ends + "."
+}
+
 // unansweredWords are the plain words of a pull request's head whose merge check was asked and has not answered
 // within its bound (novox/hq issue 438): mesh-delivery holds no delivery of it, so there is nothing to stop, release
 // or close, and no action is offered. The operator's acts are a new commit, which asks the check again, or a look