push: the wait is the call's or the controller's setting push-wait, never a length in the code (issue 629)

The operator's rule: a wait is never hard-coded, at most a default is configured. The push verb takes `wait`; without it the controller's setting `push-wait` (module default 2m) applies; a setting that cannot be read waits for nothing, as a push did before, and says so.

cmd/mesh-controller/seatverbs.go

@@ -522,9 +522,11 @@ func (a *verbArguments) commandLine() ([]string, error) {
 	case "push":
 		// A push to a named machine waits for that machine's own answer, so the call's record says
 		// how it went: applied, refused with the machine's reason, or which resources failed and why
-		// (novox/hq issue 629). The caller is answered before the push starts (answersFirst), so the
-		// wait holds nobody; it is what `calls` then shows. A sweep (--behind) still does not wait: it
-		// sends many machines, and the slowest would hold back what is said of the others.
+		// (novox/hq issue 629). How long is the call's `wait`, else the controller's setting `push-wait`;
+		// neither given waits for nothing, as before. The caller is answered before the push starts
+		// (answersFirst) and the machines are released once sent, so the wait holds nobody; it is what
+		// `calls` then shows. A sweep (--behind) does not wait: the slowest machine would hold back
+		// what is said of the others.
 		// A push through the seat is a push by hand, and says why (novox/hq to-be 45 §7).
 		if err := need("why"); err != nil {
 			return nil, fmt.Errorf("%w: a push by hand is a repair, recorded in the hand-act log with why", err)
@@ -537,7 +539,11 @@ func (a *verbArguments) commandLine() ([]string, error) {
 			// behind is not read here: given with a machine, it is refused as passed over — naming
 			// a machine and asking for every machine behind are two requests, and guessing one
 			// would push a machine nobody named, or not push one somebody did.
-			argv := []string{"push", n, "--wait", seatPushWait.String()}
+			wait, err := pushWait(str("wait"))
+			if err != nil {
+				return nil, err
+			}
+			argv := []string{"push", n, "--wait", wait.String()}
 			// A running module's data moving is sent only when said, per module (novox/hq ADR 0217).
 			if m := str("move"); m != "" {
 				argv = append(argv, "--move", m)
@@ -1331,10 +1337,46 @@ var inProcess = map[string]bool{"tools": true, "calls": true, "doctor": true,
 	// 0259 §8): the router asks it before an approval.
 	"root-free": true}
 
-// seatPushWait is how long a push through the seat waits for the machine it names to report applying what it
-// was sent (novox/hq issue 629): inside the call's bound with room for the send itself, which took two minutes
-// on 2026-10-13 with four pushes at once.
-const seatPushWait = 2 * time.Minute
+// pushFileVar names the file the controller's push settings are written to (module.json, `push-wait`).
+const pushFileVar = "MESH_PUSH_FILE"
+
+// pushWait is how long a push to a named machine waits for its answer (novox/hq issue 629): the call's own
+// `wait` when given, else the controller's setting `push-wait`, else nothing. No length is written here: the
+// setting's default is the module's, and a setting that cannot be read waits for nothing, as a push did
+// before, and is said.
+func pushWait(given string) (time.Duration, error) {
+	if strings.TrimSpace(given) != "" {
+		d, ok := durationSetting(given)
+		if !ok {
+			return 0, fmt.Errorf("push: wait %q is no duration: say it as \"90s\", \"2m\", or \"0\" to wait for nothing", given)
+		}
+		return d, nil
+	}
+	path := os.Getenv(pushFileVar)
+	if path == "" {
+		return 0, nil
+	}
+	raw, err := os.ReadFile(path)
+	if err != nil {
+		fmt.Fprintf(os.Stderr, "the push settings cannot be read (%v); a push waits for nothing\n", err)
+		return 0, nil
+	}
+	var values map[string]any
+	if err := json.Unmarshal(raw, &values); err != nil {
+		fmt.Fprintf(os.Stderr, "the push settings are not JSON (%v); a push waits for nothing\n", err)
+		return 0, nil
+	}
+	v, has := values["push-wait"]
+	if !has || v == "" {
+		return 0, nil
+	}
+	d, ok := durationSetting(v)
+	if !ok {
+		fmt.Fprintf(os.Stderr, "the setting push-wait=%v is no duration; a push waits for nothing\n", v)
+		return 0, nil
+	}
+	return d, nil
+}
 
 // answersFirst is a command line whose caller is answered before it runs: a push, by its verb or
 // through `command`. A push sends the machine holding the bus first when its user list changed, the