diff --git a/modules/mesh-grants/grants_test.go b/modules/mesh-grants/grants_test.go
index a4c2805..fbcbd74 100644
--- a/modules/mesh-grants/grants_test.go
+++ b/modules/mesh-grants/grants_test.go
@@ -699,6 +699,28 @@ func TestGrants(t *testing.T) {
 		}
 	})
 
+	t.Run("compare excuses a retired verb and a multiply claimed mesh seat's added subjects, nothing else", func(t *testing.T) {
+		const retired, store, storeInfo = "mesh.seat.mesh-delivery.tool.mark-ready", "mesh.seat.mesh-store.tool.databases", "$SRV.INFO.mesh-store.>"
+		for _, row := range []struct {
+			name         string
+			shadow, bus  []string // the node-tools user's subscribe in the shadow list and in the loaded list
+			multi        []string
+			differs      bool
+			excusedCount int
+		}{
+			{"a retired verb the shadow dropped", []string{"x"}, []string{"x", retired}, nil, false, 1},
+			{"a verb of a live seat the shadow lost", []string{"x"}, []string{"x", store}, []string{"mesh-store"}, true, 0},
+			{"a seat claimed on two machines, added", []string{"x", store, storeInfo}, []string{"x"}, []string{"mesh-store"}, false, 2},
+			{"the same added for a seat claimed once", []string{"x", store}, []string{"x"}, nil, true, 0},
+		} {
+			c := grants.Compare([]grants.User{{User: "a.node-tools", Subscribe: row.shadow}}, []grants.User{{User: "a.node-tools", Subscribe: row.bus}}, nil).
+				Excusing(grants.ExcusedBy(row.multi))
+			if c.Equal() == row.differs || len(c.Excused) != row.excusedCount {
+				t.Errorf("%s: equal %v, excused %v", row.name, c.Equal(), c.Excused)
+			}
+		}
+	})
+
 	t.Run("tools", func(t *testing.T) {
 		b := fixture()
 		b.loaded = shadowOf(t, b)
diff --git a/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/part.go b/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/part.go
index eef23e7..6fbf8da 100644
--- a/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/part.go
+++ b/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/part.go
@@ -190,7 +190,7 @@ func (p *Part) Compose() Result {
 	users = WithHashes(users, in.Hashes)
 	st.Digest, st.Users = Digest(users), len(users)
 	loaded, err := LoadedUsers(p.Call)
-	st.Compare = Compare(users, loaded, Placed(in))
+	st.Compare = Compare(users, loaded, Placed(in)).Excusing(ExcusedBy(MultiHeld(recs)))
 	if err != nil {
 		st.Compare.Unread = err.Error()
 	}
diff --git a/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/userlist.go b/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/userlist.go
index 0ccb33c..a9bd151 100644
--- a/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/userlist.go
+++ b/modules/mesh-grants/internal/grants/userlist.go
@@ -5,11 +5,13 @@ import (
 	"encoding/hex"
 	"encoding/json"
 	"fmt"
+	"regexp"
 	"slices"
 	"sort"
 	"strings"
 
 	"git.novox.be/novox/mesh-sdk/go/buscompose"
+	"git.novox.be/novox/mesh-sdk/go/catalogue"
 )
 
 // User is one bus user and its grants, as the bus module's nats_users answers them: never a password hash.
@@ -234,7 +236,9 @@ type Comparison struct {
 	Dropped []string   `json:"dropped"`
 	Gone    []string   `json:"gone,omitempty"`
 	Differ  []UserDiff `json:"differ"`
-	Same    int        `json:"same"`
+	// Excused are the subjects the comparison does not count, each with why (Comparison.Excusing).
+	Excused []Excuse `json:"excused,omitempty"`
+	Same    int      `json:"same"`
 	// Unread says the loaded list could not be read, and why: nothing is compared then.
 	Unread string `json:"unread,omitempty"`
 }
@@ -325,3 +329,93 @@ func Placed(in Inputs) func(user string) bool {
 		return slices.Contains(in.Nodes, parts[0]) && slices.Contains(in.Assigned[parts[0]], parts[1])
 	}
 }
+
+// Excuse is one subject the comparison does not count as a difference between the lists, and why.
+type Excuse struct {
+	User    string `json:"user"`
+	Subject string `json:"subject"`
+	Why     string `json:"why"`
+}
+
+// Excusing removes from the differences the subjects f excuses (added: the shadow grants it and the loaded list does not),
+// naming each in Excused; a user left with no difference counts as the same. Pure.
+func (c Comparison) Excusing(f func(subject string, added bool) string) Comparison {
+	var differ []UserDiff
+	for _, d := range c.Differ {
+		keep := func(list []string, added bool) []string {
+			var out []string
+			for _, s := range list {
+				if why := f(s, added); why != "" {
+					c.Excused = append(c.Excused, Excuse{User: d.User, Subject: s, Why: why})
+					continue
+				}
+				out = append(out, s)
+			}
+			return out
+		}
+		d.PublishAdded, d.PublishDropped = keep(d.PublishAdded, true), keep(d.PublishDropped, false)
+		d.SubscribeAdded, d.SubscribeDropped = keep(d.SubscribeAdded, true), keep(d.SubscribeDropped, false)
+		if len(d.PublishAdded)+len(d.PublishDropped)+len(d.SubscribeAdded)+len(d.SubscribeDropped) == 0 && d.Responses == "" {
+			c.Same++
+			continue
+		}
+		differ = append(differ, d)
+	}
+	if differ == nil {
+		differ = []UserDiff{}
+	}
+	c.Differ = differ
+	return c
+}
+
+var seatSubject = regexp.MustCompile(`^mesh\.seat\.([^.]+)\.(?:call|tool)\.([^.]+)(?:\.\*)?$`)
+var seatService = regexp.MustCompile(`^\$SRV\.(?:INFO|PING|STATS)\.([^.]+)(?:\.>)?$`)
+
+// ExcusedBy is the excuse of a comparison until placement lives in the catalogue (the operator, 2026-10-26): a verb the
+// seat catalogue retired on purpose, which the shadow no longer grants, is no difference; and what the shadow grants more
+// for a mesh seat that is claimed on several machines (the standing gap seat holdings: it composes the seat as held on each)
+// is named and not counted, since a subscription to a seat's verbs on a machine whose holder does not answer them harms
+// nothing and is gone when holdings follow the catalogue. Nothing else is excused: a grant the shadow gives for any other
+// reason, or the loss of any other subject, keeps the lists apart.
+func ExcusedBy(multiHeld []string) func(subject string, added bool) string {
+	return func(subject string, added bool) string {
+		if m := seatSubject.FindStringSubmatch(subject); m != nil {
+			if !added && retiredVerb(m[1], m[2]) {
+				return "a verb the seat catalogue retired"
+			}
+			if added && slices.Contains(multiHeld, m[1]) {
+				return "seat " + m[1] + " is claimed on several machines: composed as held on each until holdings follow the catalogue"
+			}
+		}
+		if m := seatService.FindStringSubmatch(subject); m != nil && added && slices.Contains(multiHeld, m[1]) {
+			return "seat " + m[1] + " is claimed on several machines: composed as held on each until holdings follow the catalogue"
+		}
+		return ""
+	}
+}
+
+// MultiHeld are the mesh seats (held once for the mesh) that more than one machine's module claims, sorted.
+func MultiHeld(r buscompose.Records) []string {
+	nodes := map[string]map[string]bool{}
+	for node, declared := range r.Assigned {
+		for _, d := range declared {
+			for _, s := range d.Holds {
+				if s.Scope != "" && s.Scope != catalogue.ScopeMesh {
+					continue
+				}
+				if nodes[s.Name] == nil {
+					nodes[s.Name] = map[string]bool{}
+				}
+				nodes[s.Name][node] = true
+			}
+		}
+	}
+	var out []string
+	for seat, ns := range nodes {
+		if len(ns) > 1 {
+			out = append(out, seat)
+		}
+	}
+	sort.Strings(out)
+	return out
+}