Count an unasked report as said only once the broker has taken it (hq ADR 0100)

cmd/mesh-host/main.go

@@ -638,11 +638,11 @@ func runLink(ctx context.Context, opts options) error {
 	// (novox/hq ADR 0004).
 	// Reports a reconcile has to make unasked — what an adopted node holds changed, or its
 	// firewall did — go out over the link when it is up (novox/hq ADR 0100).
-	outbox := make(chan link.Report, 1)
+	outbox := make(chan link.Unasked, 1)
 	watch := &adoptionWatch{}
 	applier = watch.noting(applier)
 	go holdTheMachine(ctx, opts, mine, say, sched, func(r link.Report) {
-		if !watch.changed(r) {
+		if !watch.differs(r) {
 			return
 		}
 		select {
@@ -650,7 +650,13 @@ func runLink(ctx context.Context, opts options) error {
 			// An older one nobody has published yet; this one says everything it did.
 		default:
 		}
-		outbox <- r
+		// Counted as said only once the broker has taken it: queued and lost — the link down, the
+		// publish refused — the change would never be said again (novox/hq ADR 0100).
+		outbox <- link.Unasked{Report: r, Done: func(published bool) {
+			if published {
+				watch.said(r)
+			}
+		}}
 	})
 
 	return link.HoldRoused(ctx, link.Membership{
@@ -686,15 +692,27 @@ func adoptionFingerprint(r link.Report) string {
 	return strings.Join(parts, "\n")
 }
 
-// changed records a report and says whether it differs from the last one that went out.
-func (w *adoptionWatch) changed(r link.Report) bool {
+// differs says whether a report says anything the last one that went out did not. It records
+// nothing: what was said is what reached the mesh, not what was written down to send.
+func (w *adoptionWatch) differs(r link.Report) bool {
 	w.mu.Lock()
 	defer w.mu.Unlock()
-	now := adoptionFingerprint(r)
-	if now == w.last {
+	return adoptionFingerprint(r) != w.last
+}
+
+// said records a report the mesh has actually been told.
+func (w *adoptionWatch) said(r link.Report) {
+	w.mu.Lock()
+	defer w.mu.Unlock()
+	w.last = adoptionFingerprint(r)
+}
+
+// changed is differs and said together, for a report published as it is made.
+func (w *adoptionWatch) changed(r link.Report) bool {
+	if !w.differs(r) {
 		return false
 	}
-	w.last = now
+	w.said(r)
 	return true
 }