diff --git a/go/delivery/buildrun/asks_test.go b/go/delivery/buildrun/asks_test.go
index 3365202..44281b1 100644
--- a/go/delivery/buildrun/asks_test.go
+++ b/go/delivery/buildrun/asks_test.go
@@ -48,6 +48,35 @@ func TestAnAskerPutsOnceAndReadsTheStep(t *testing.T) {
 	if len(g.Asks()) != 0 {
 		t.Fatal("a wait put an ask")
 	}
+	// Issue 734: an ask the build seat gave up on (DEAD_LETTERS keeps its copy with the ask's id) ends its wait as failed
+	// with the words, though a node had taken it; under NotTakenBound one no node takes ends at the bound; a step written
+	// first is answered as the node wrote it.
+	dead := &DeadLetters{}
+	lw := LostAskWaiter{Inner: g, Dead: dead}
+	k = Asker{Publisher: g, Waiter: lw, Bound: time.Minute}
+	g.Write(delivery.Step{ID: "mvl0frv18d1970", Node: "ace", State: delivery.StepRunning, Started: time.Now()})
+	given, ok := GivenUpOf(map[string][]string{"Mesh-Dead-Msg-Id": {"mvl0frv18d1970"}, "Mesh-Dead-Deliveries": {"5"},
+		"Mesh-Dead-Stream": {"SEAT_NODE_BUILD_GO"}, "Mesh-Dead-Gave-Up": {"2026-10-26T12:26:40Z"}})
+	if !ok {
+		t.Fatal("a dead letter's headers were not read")
+	}
+	go dead.Heard(given)
+	step, err = k.Wait(context.Background(), goAsk("mvl0frv18d1970"))
+	if err != nil || step.State != delivery.StepFailed || !IsLost(step) ||
+		!strings.Contains(step.Reason, LostWords+" after 5 deliveries at 2026-10-26T12:26:40Z") {
+		t.Fatalf("a given-up ask: %+v, %v", step, err)
+	}
+	if _, err := k.Passed(step, nil); err == nil || !strings.Contains(err.Error(), "on "+LostNode+" failed: "+LostWords) {
+		t.Fatalf("a given-up ask's error: %v", err)
+	}
+	step, err = k.Wait(NotTakenBound(context.Background(), 20*time.Millisecond), goAsk("mvl0frv18d1971"))
+	if err != nil || !IsNotTaken(step) || IsLost(step) {
+		t.Fatalf("an ask no node took: %+v, %v", step, err)
+	}
+	g.Write(delivery.Step{ID: "mvl0frv18d1972", Node: "g14", State: delivery.StepPassed})
+	if step, err = k.Wait(NotTakenBound(context.Background(), time.Minute), goAsk("mvl0frv18d1972")); err != nil || step.Node != "g14" {
+		t.Fatalf("a step written: %+v, %v", step, err)
+	}
 }
 
 // Review (issue 734 path): an ask taken again by the same node (its build module replaced mid-run) is bounded from the
diff --git a/go/delivery/buildrun/lostask.go b/go/delivery/buildrun/lostask.go
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..52f7ee8
--- /dev/null
+++ b/go/delivery/buildrun/lostask.go
@@ -0,0 +1,296 @@
+package buildrun
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"fmt"
+	"strconv"
+	"strings"
+	"sync"
+	"time"
+
+	"github.com/nats-io/nats.go/jetstream"
+
+	"git.novox.be/novox/mesh-sdk/go/delivery"
+)
+
+// **An ask the build seat gave up on ends its step** (novox/hq issue 734). A build seat's worker offers an ask
+// delivery.AskMaxDeliver times; one handed out that often without an answer (a bus reload that drops every hand-out, a node
+// that dies taking it each time) is given up by the server, and the controller keeps a copy of it in DEAD_LETTERS under
+// mesh.events.dead.<seat stream>.<worker>, with the ask's message id (its ask id), how often it was handed out and when it
+// was given up. No build node writes a step for it, so an asker that waits for the step waits for ever: a try stays
+// running and holds a try place, a check's verdict stays running and its pull request waits.
+//
+// An asker of the build seats (the checker, the builder) hears those copies (HearDeadLetters: an ordered consumer on
+// DEAD_LETTERS filtered to the build seats' streams, granted to a user of a seat pulled by kind, buscompose
+// DeadLetterReads) into DeadLetters, and LostAskWaiter ends the waiting step at once as failed on the node LostNode, its
+// reason saying LostWords; the asker decides what follows (the checker ends a try as error and asks a check again, the
+// builder asks its part of a build again).
+//
+// Belt and braces, where the asker says so in the context (NotTakenBound; the checker's tries): an ask no build node took
+// within a bound ends the same way, saying NotTakenWords. An ask waits in the stream as long as the backlog is otherwise
+// (ADR 0525 §9): a backlog is no fault.
+
+// LostNode is the node a step ended for a lost ask names: no build node wrote it.
+const LostNode = "bus"
+
+// The words of a step ended for its ask.
+const (
+	LostWords     = "its ask was given up by the build seat"
+	NotTakenWords = "no build node took its ask"
+)
+
+// The headers the controller keeps a given-up message's copy with in DEAD_LETTERS (mesh-controller internal/link
+// deadletters.go): the original message id (an ask's is its ask id), how often it was handed out, when it was given up.
+const (
+	DeadHeaderMsgID      = "Mesh-Dead-Msg-Id"
+	DeadHeaderDeliveries = "Mesh-Dead-Deliveries"
+	DeadHeaderGaveUp     = "Mesh-Dead-Gave-Up"
+	DeadHeaderStream     = "Mesh-Dead-Stream"
+)
+
+// DeadLettersStream is the stream the controller keeps given-up messages in, and DeadLetterFilter the subjects of one seat
+// stream's copies there (buscompose DeadLetterSubject).
+const DeadLettersStream = "DEAD_LETTERS"
+
+// DeadLetterFilter is the subjects DEAD_LETTERS keeps a seat stream's given-up messages under.
+func DeadLetterFilter(stream string) string { return "mesh.events.dead." + stream + ".>" }
+
+// SeatStream is the stream of a build seat's language (buscompose seatStreamName of node-build-<language>).
+func SeatStream(language string) string { return "SEAT_NODE_BUILD_" + strings.ToUpper(language) }
+
+// GivenUp is one ask a build seat gave up on, as DEAD_LETTERS keeps it.
+type GivenUp struct {
+	AskID      string
+	Stream     string
+	Deliveries int
+	At         time.Time
+}
+
+// GivenUpOf reads a DEAD_LETTERS copy's headers; false when it names no message id.
+func GivenUpOf(header map[string][]string) (GivenUp, bool) {
+	get := func(k string) string {
+		if v := header[k]; len(v) > 0 {
+			return strings.TrimSpace(v[0])
+		}
+		return ""
+	}
+	g := GivenUp{AskID: get(DeadHeaderMsgID), Stream: get(DeadHeaderStream)}
+	if g.AskID == "" {
+		return GivenUp{}, false
+	}
+	g.Deliveries, _ = strconv.Atoi(get(DeadHeaderDeliveries))
+	g.At, _ = time.Parse(time.RFC3339Nano, get(DeadHeaderGaveUp))
+	return g, true
+}
+
+// Words are what a step ended for the given-up ask says.
+func (g GivenUp) Words() string {
+	at := "at an unknown time"
+	if !g.At.IsZero() {
+		at = "at " + g.At.UTC().Format(time.RFC3339)
+	}
+	return fmt.Sprintf("%s after %d deliveries %s (kept in %s); ask again", LostWords, g.Deliveries, at, DeadLettersStream)
+}
+
+// keptGivenUp is how many given-up asks DeadLetters remembers for a waiter that starts after the copy was heard.
+const keptGivenUp = 1024
+
+// DeadLetters holds the given-up asks heard, and hands each to the waiter of its ask. Safe for concurrent use.
+type DeadLetters struct {
+	mu       sync.Mutex
+	heard    map[string]GivenUp
+	order    []string
+	watchers map[string][]chan GivenUp
+}
+
+// Heard takes one given-up ask in.
+func (d *DeadLetters) Heard(g GivenUp) {
+	d.mu.Lock()
+	if d.heard == nil {
+		d.heard, d.watchers = map[string]GivenUp{}, map[string][]chan GivenUp{}
+	}
+	if _, ok := d.heard[g.AskID]; !ok {
+		d.order = append(d.order, g.AskID)
+		if len(d.order) > keptGivenUp {
+			delete(d.heard, d.order[0])
+			d.order = d.order[1:]
+		}
+	}
+	d.heard[g.AskID] = g
+	ws := d.watchers[g.AskID]
+	delete(d.watchers, g.AskID)
+	d.mu.Unlock()
+	for _, w := range ws {
+		w <- g // buffered, one each
+	}
+}
+
+// watch answers a channel that gets the ask's given-up copy once (at once when it was heard already), and its cancel.
+func (d *DeadLetters) watch(askID string) (<-chan GivenUp, func()) {
+	ch := make(chan GivenUp, 1)
+	d.mu.Lock()
+	defer d.mu.Unlock()
+	if d.heard == nil {
+		d.heard, d.watchers = map[string]GivenUp{}, map[string][]chan GivenUp{}
+	}
+	if g, ok := d.heard[askID]; ok {
+		ch <- g
+		return ch, func() {}
+	}
+	d.watchers[askID] = append(d.watchers[askID], ch)
+	return ch, func() {
+		d.mu.Lock()
+		defer d.mu.Unlock()
+		ws := d.watchers[askID]
+		for i, w := range ws {
+			if w == ch {
+				d.watchers[askID] = append(ws[:i], ws[i+1:]...)
+				break
+			}
+		}
+		if len(d.watchers[askID]) == 0 {
+			delete(d.watchers, askID)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+type notTakenKey struct{}
+
+// NotTakenBound says, in ctx, that an ask no build node took within bound ends its step (a try's, never a check's).
+func NotTakenBound(ctx context.Context, bound time.Duration) context.Context {
+	return context.WithValue(ctx, notTakenKey{}, bound)
+}
+
+func notTakenBoundOf(ctx context.Context) time.Duration {
+	d, _ := ctx.Value(notTakenKey{}).(time.Duration)
+	return d
+}
+
+// LostAskWaiter is an AskWaiter that ends an ask's step when the build seat gave the ask up (DeadLetters), or, under
+// NotTakenBound, when no build node took it within the bound: it hands the asker a failed step whose reason says why, on
+// the node "bus". Every step the build module writes is handed on as it is.
+type LostAskWaiter struct {
+	Inner AskWaiter
+	Dead  *DeadLetters
+	Now   func() time.Time
+}
+
+func (w LostAskWaiter) now() time.Time {
+	if w.Now != nil {
+		return w.Now()
+	}
+	return time.Now()
+}
+
+// WatchAsk is AskWaiter's.
+func (w LostAskWaiter) WatchAsk(ctx context.Context, module, askID string) (<-chan delivery.Step, error) {
+	inner, err := w.Inner.WatchAsk(ctx, module, askID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	var dead <-chan GivenUp
+	cancel := func() {}
+	if w.Dead != nil {
+		dead, cancel = w.Dead.watch(askID)
+	}
+	// The not-taken bound is a context's (ADR 0437 §8: no timer), ended when a node takes the ask.
+	var notTaken <-chan struct{}
+	bound := notTakenBoundOf(ctx)
+	stopBound := func() {}
+	if bound > 0 {
+		var nt context.Context
+		nt, stopBound = context.WithTimeout(context.Background(), bound)
+		notTaken = nt.Done()
+	}
+	out := make(chan delivery.Step)
+	go func() {
+		defer close(out)
+		defer cancel()
+		defer func() { stopBound() }()
+		send := func(s delivery.Step) bool {
+			select {
+			case out <- s:
+				return true
+			case <-ctx.Done():
+				return false
+			}
+		}
+		ended := func(reason string) delivery.Step {
+			at := w.now().UTC()
+			return delivery.Step{ID: askID, Node: LostNode, State: delivery.StepFailed, Reason: reason, Ended: at}
+		}
+		for {
+			select {
+			case <-ctx.Done():
+				return
+			case s, ok := <-inner:
+				if !ok {
+					return
+				}
+				if notTaken != nil {
+					stopBound() // a node took it: its step is bounded by the asker from its start
+					notTaken = nil
+				}
+				if !send(s) {
+					return
+				}
+			case g := <-dead:
+				dead = nil
+				send(ended(g.Words()))
+				return
+			case <-notTaken:
+				send(ended(fmt.Sprintf("%s within %s of its put; it was lost or waits behind a backlog; ask again", NotTakenWords, bound)))
+				return
+			}
+		}
+	}()
+	return out, nil
+}
+
+// IsLost says whether a step was ended by LostAskWaiter because the build seat gave its ask up (LostWords).
+func IsLost(s delivery.Step) bool { return s.Node == LostNode && strings.Contains(s.Reason, LostWords) }
+
+// IsNotTaken says whether a step was ended by LostAskWaiter because no build node took its ask within the bound.
+func IsNotTaken(s delivery.Step) bool {
+	return s.Node == LostNode && strings.Contains(s.Reason, NotTakenWords)
+}
+
+// HearDeadLetters follows, for each language's build seat stream, the copies DEAD_LETTERS keeps of the asks its workers
+// gave up on, into dead: an ordered consumer from now, which resumes where it was after a reconnect, and starts here again
+// when it is reset before it heard any, so a bus reload loses none. Where the bus refuses it (the grant not yet composed)
+// it says so and goes on; the stop it answers ends every consumer it started.
+func HearDeadLetters(ctx context.Context, js jetstream.JetStream, languages []string, dead *DeadLetters, logf func(string, ...any)) func() {
+	var stops []func()
+	since := time.Now()
+	for _, language := range languages {
+		stream := SeatStream(language)
+		filter := DeadLetterFilter(stream)
+		notHeard := func(err error) {
+			logf("the asks %s gives up on are not heard (%s of %s), so a wait for one ends only at its bound: %v",
+				stream, filter, DeadLettersStream, err)
+		}
+		cons, err := js.OrderedConsumer(ctx, DeadLettersStream, jetstream.OrderedConsumerConfig{
+			FilterSubjects: []string{filter}, DeliverPolicy: jetstream.DeliverByStartTimePolicy, OptStartTime: &since})
+		if err != nil {
+			notHeard(err)
+			continue
+		}
+		cc, err := cons.Consume(func(m jetstream.Msg) {
+			if g, ok := GivenUpOf(m.Headers()); ok {
+				logf("the ask %s on %s was given up after %d deliveries at %s: the wait for its step ends", g.AskID, g.Stream,
+					g.Deliveries, g.At.Format(time.RFC3339))
+				dead.Heard(g)
+			}
+		}, jetstream.ConsumeErrHandler(func(_ jetstream.ConsumeContext, err error) { logf("hearing %s: %v", DeadLettersStream, err) }))
+		if err != nil {
+			notHeard(err)
+			continue
+		}
+		stops = append(stops, cc.Stop)
+	}
+	return func() {
+		for _, stop := range stops {
+			stop()
+		}
+	}
+}